Friday, January 20, 2012

Being "Mr." Khushi

Today, we complete two years of being married. And it just seems like it was yesterday except that sometimes I take her for granted as a wife. And I am not proud of anything that I write. Take today for instance, what could have been planned and beautiful spent, thanks to me it was just another day. Khushi, just showed me how small things that she did made it such a big difference. She bought some flowers put in my cupboard with a new shirt. Hid a planner with our snaps new and old and boy was delighted or what. This also meant that I on the other hand had not planned even an evening dinner for her such a shame. Well that's me these days. Not sure if I have grown older than I am or I am just becoming insensitive. Well I am not here to write about that. Today is special, indeed I screwed up but this is it. This ain't happening again. To begin with this is what I plan. Tomorrow I plan to surprise her with some special cooking specially for her. Take her out in the evening for a nice drive bring a nice bouquet of Red Roses. Finish the day with a dinner and movie. Hopefully she will be forgive me for not making what truly is a very significant day in our lives. I often forget that significance of each day is in what we make of it. I have made this mistake more than once to be asking for forgiveness. Q. So what is it like being Mr. Khushi? A. Honestly, this is the easiest question she is the most understanding and supporting wife I could have ever asked. Often I wake up surprised with a feeling what did I do to deserve a wife like her. Truly she is the pillar of strength in my life. She breathes sensibility and balance to my life. Often is the voice in my head. My go to person for literally everything. Q. What makes you say all of this? A. Well, she is a very reasonable person. Everything goes with logic, for her the life line is her family. She manage not only her family but the relations that come with much better than I could ever have. She handles situation with reason and patiently deals with every situation. Q. What is her biggest dream? A. She is often says she wants her own house, a big house with a garden and trees.But honestly I think her biggest dream is to be the best mother, the best friend to her daughter that she can be. I am sure that she will be a great friend and mentor. This is life as I experience it is a blessing in the form of Gia, Khushi, friends like Sophie, Mani, yogi, Pooja. Loving brothers like Mayank, Chintu. Loving sister in Sonal and so many other people that make life worth it.